The movie Frozen and what it has done to my family

By Dr. Yasmine Kalkstein
The movie Frozen has wreaked havoc on my family.
Sometimes being a parent, you just can't imagine the scenarios you are faced with.
I hear the following dialogue after bedtime. 
Adam: Look, if I put on this pink thing you can be like Elsa.  Matan: NO THAT'S NOT WHAT ELSA WEARS!! Adam: Trust me, I can make it like Elsa's cape. (Matan wails)  Adam: Son, you don't always have to be Elsa.  
 I come to try to help.  
Matan: QUEEN ELSA HAS A BLUE CAPE!!! (more cries as he throws himself on the floor)
We spend the following three minutes frantically trying to construct a blue cape of the exact length that will make Matan stop crying hysterically so he can go to sleep.  Finally by attaching a blue sundress to the back of him, Matan relatively contently goes back to sleep.  
Like I said, Frozen has wreaked havoc.  The kids sing it incessantly. And if Matan doesn't sing it the right way while Sivan is singing it, cries and screams ensue.  And if Matan doesn't want me to come close to him he says in a very sober, serious tone, "Don't come close.  I don't want to hurt you!!"


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